The Unhelpful Helper
It's a wonderful thing to want to help others. Thank goodness there are many in this world who are sensitive, caring, and helpful people. However, if your constant focus is to be a helper, you may pay a heavy cost…
The TED* Blog — Page 20
Stories, frameworks, and practices for shifting from drama to empowerment.
You Cannot Not Create
Creating is in the basic nature of being human. It is not reserved only for those who call themselves artists, musicians, and writers. Everyone creates. You engage in the act of creating every day when you bring…
How TED* Can Transform Anger
This blog is written by Bob Brinker M. A. Bob is a long-time subscriber to TED* Works!® who wrote to us about how he uses TED* as a counselor. I have lost track of when I first became aware of the Karpman Drama Triangle…
Make Valuable Deposits in Your Emotional Bank Account
In a recent conversation, a good friend raved about the CEO in his global consulting firm. He said that the CEO had always been rather cold and aloof and rarely shared personal information, but he had changed in his…
How to be Grateful Even When Problems Arise
When “just be grateful” is used to offset every difficult situation, it can become a cliché or even trivialized. The truth is, gratitude cultivates more effective outcomes. It’s not just a sweet sentiment. It’s a…
Victimization vs Victimhood
The Victim role is the central role in the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT). There are absolutely times we all have felt like a Victim in the world, but there’s a profound difference between victimization and victimhood. Let…
How TED* Became My Rescuer
We are delighted to share this week's TED* Works! ® blog, written by long-time colleague and 3VQ Certified Trainer, Jennifer Herold . In the early years of my introduction and work with the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT)…
3 Ways of Applying TED*
For almost 20 years we have shared TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) ® with people and have noticed there tends to be 3 ways people use the framework. This is not a scientific study—simply our observation of how people…
How Your Mind Really Works
Most people think that their thoughts and feelings arise from external events and circumstances. Here are examples of how most of us talk about events, as though the event itself is the cause of our feelings: “The…