When we first started using the Dreaded Drama Triangle (DDT) to help us observe our own drama, both personally and professionally, we asked some basic questions like “How did this drama get started in the first place?” “What would be a better way to relate to ourselves and to others?” As we researched the drama triangle, all […]
Many of us have seen the graphic photos of someone sneezing with thousands of droplets projecting into the air. The contagious nature of this virus is certainly a huge part of the pandemic, and the flu and cold season. And here’s the thing—emotions are highly contagious too! At a time when most people are hunkered […]
If you are reading this blog, you are likely a person who wants to be more self-aware and to embrace your deeper desires. Each new year, it is common to reflect upon what you most care about. As you reflect, an important question to consider is this: do your longings arise from “callings” or “cravings?” […]
Challengers call forth learning and growth – and we have had several readers do just that in response to the title of today’s blog “Slavery to Goals.” We are humbled and a little ashamed that our enthusiasm for our first “Reader’s Story” blog overshadowed our sensitivity to the title that we assigned to it. While […]
Last week we announced we will be sharing more stories from our readers about how TED* (*The Empowerment Dynamic) has impacted their lives. This is the first story. We received it in response to last week’s “Don’t Let Goals Ruin Your Life” topic. The recent blog, “Don’t Let Goals Ruin Your Life” resonated with something deep […]
Setting goals is a valuable practice and many of us set them as “resolutions” in the New Year. Goals are essential for completing tasks, whether it is developing a new business skill or cleaning your closet. However, don’t let the intensity of setting goals ruin your life. While setting goals can motivate you, they […]
As we prepare to ring in the new year we want to pause and reflect back on 2022. There were many ups and downs, yet as Creators, we hopefully took the Challengers in stride and were able to grow and learn. As we say goodbye to 2022 and welcome 2023, we want to share 3 […]
If it wasn’t for the darkness, we wouldn’t see the star-lit night. When we fall into the dark and drama-filled times in our own lives, it feels like we will never get through them. It can seem like a long day’s journey into the night, with no way out. In ancient times, people living in […]
Intentions direct why you say or do anything—consciously or unconsciously. Intention, then, guides your action. Therefore, your intention informs both your action and your attitude toward that action. The pace of life can be so fast that it is common to go on automatic, just keeping your head above water and coping with your long […]
Each of us has the capacity to optimize our life experience so that we are aligned with our true essence and unlimited potential as a Creator. We don’t need to remain in fixed patterns of reactivity and drama. Once we taste success, however, we become very attached to our way of thinking. We might say […]